The paper focuses on the issue of heart breaking, emotional and complicated death of Vivek Oji who is transgender . Who is named as Nnemdi a woman. This paper reveals the grief of parents losing their child due to the norms laid in the rigid society Vivek's life is a struggle to live with violent intolerance and he ultimately dies

Patriarchy is often understood as a system that privileges men; however, its impact is far more complex and contradictory. This paper examines the dual nature of patriarchy as both a source of power and a mechanism of oppression. While it confers authority, status, and control to men within social, economic, and familial structures, it simultaneously imposes rigid norms of masculinity that restrict emotional expression,